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Saturday, June 27, 2020

Liturgy for Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time - Presiders: Jim Marsh, ARCWP, and Lindy Sanford-Martinez, ARCWP

Stonewall Inn - June 2020
Welcome and Theme: Good morning and welcome to the Upper Room Inclusive Catholic Community in Albany, NY.

Today is particularly poignant for me. In the early hours of this day some fifty-one years ago, an event was taking place at a bar in NYC that would challenge and transform our world for significant numbers of people. It was a bar frequented by “drags” and “queens” as well as by many young people who were homeless because of “unwelcoming” families. Many of us probably did not know of this event; certainly main stream media, if it covered it at all, was written from the perspective of the police. And remember that the Civil Rights movement and the Viet Nam war were in full swing with demonstrations as well.

Three months ago, a stealth virus was beginning to wreak its havoc. When we gathered in person on March 8th to celebrate the Second Sunday in Lent, there were 564 confirmed cases in the U.S. and 21 deaths. As we gather today, our country has seen more than 2.5 million cases and have experienced nearly 125,000 deaths in just 16 weeks. Let that sink in.

Just a little over a month ago, we witnessed through our technology the murder of George Floyd which has unleashed and empowered the “Black Lives Matter” movement across the world. George was not the first for sure. There was Breonna Taylor, an EMT gunned down in her own home for a drug raid gone bad. There was Ahmaud Arbrey who was murdered for simply “jogging while black.” There were Trayvon Martin, Eric Garner and so many more black lives that ended senselessly. And let us not forget the Matthew Shepherds of the world and the 16 transgendered people who have been murdered just this year. Do you suppose Judy Shepherd, the black mothers, the Arab, Palestinian or Israeli mother cries any less than the other, when it’s her child?

And so my friends, let us pray for and seek a renewed abundance of wisdom, knowledge, understanding, right judgment, fortitude (courage), piety (reverence) and a joyful awe of God as we share word and fellowship this day.

Let us begin our prayer in song:  Lift Every Voice and Sing by James W Johnson 
https://youtu.be/w4EdnxNjrhc                      

Lift every voice and sing ‘til earth and heaven ring,
Ring with the harmonies of Liberty;
Let our rejoicing rise, high as the listening skies,
Let it resound loud as the rolling sea.

Sing a song full of the faith that the dark past has taught us,
Sing a song full of the hope that the present has brought us,
Facing the rising sun of our new day begun
Let us march on till victory is won."
Lift every voice and sing ‘til earth and heaven ring.
Ring with the harmonies of liberty.
Let our rejoicing rise, high as the listening skies.
Let it resound loud as the rolling sea.

Sing a song full of the faith that the dark past has taught us.
Sing a song full of the hope that the present has brought us.
Facing the rising sun of our new day begun,
Let us march on 'til victory is won.

Now God of our weary years,
And God of our silent tears.
Thou who has brought us thus far on our way.
Thou who has by thy might
Led us into the light.
Keep us forever in the path, we pray.

Sing a song full of the faith that the dark past has taught us.
Sing a song full of the hope that the present has brought us.
Facing the rising sun of our new day begun,
Let us march on 'til victory is won.

LITURGY OF WORD

Reading 1:   2 Kings 4:8-11, 14-16A
One day Elisha went to Shunem. There was a wealthy woman who urged him to stay for a meal. In the course of time, whenever Elisha traveled that way he would stop for a meal. So she said to her husband, “I have come to believe that the person who stops for a meal is a prophet of God. Let us set up a small room on the roof with a bed, a table, a chair and a lamp. Then he can stay here whenever he comes to see us.”
One day when Elisha arrived, he went up to his room to rest. Rested, he asked Gehazi, his disciple, “Can something be done for her?” His disciple answered, “Well yes! She has no son, and her husband is getting on in years.”
Elisha said, “Call her.” She was called and stood in the doorway. “About this time next year you will be holding a son in your arms” promised Elisha.

These are inspired words from our Jewish ancestors; let us respond: AMEN!

Alleluia      Dennis on behalf of community
Stonewall Inn - 1969
Gospel Reading:             Matthew 10:1, 7, 16-20, 37-42
Jesus called twelve of his followers, and gave them authority to expel unclean spirits and heal sickness and dis-ease of all kinds.
As you go, make this proclamation: “the Reign of heaven has drawn near.”
“I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. So be on your guard. People will haul you into court; they will flog you in the synagogues. Don’t worry about how to speak or what to say. You will be given what you should say when the time comes, because it will be the Spirit of your Abba/Amma God speaking through you.”
“Those who love mother or father, daughter or son more than me are not worthy of me. Those who will not carry the cross, following in my footsteps, are not worthy of me. You who have found your life will lose it, and you who lose your life for my sake will find it.
Those who welcome you also welcome me, and those who welcome me, welcome the One who sent me. Those who welcome prophets will receive the reward reserved for the prophets themselves. Those who welcome holy people just because they are holy will receive the reward of the holy ones. And whoever gives only a cup of cold water to one of these little ones just for being a disciple will not lack a reward.”

These are inspired words from Matthew, the evangelist; let us respond:
AMEN!

Homily Starter:   Jim 
As is our custom, the community is invited to share a brief reflection on the Word proclaimed today. Please unmute your device (laptop, iPad or phone) before beginning to share and mute again when you are done.

I know my intro today ties many happenings together. There are two things I will emphasize, namely hospitality and being prophet.

In ancient times, hospitality was considered a sacred duty. We know this from the many Torah stories we hear throughout our liturgical year. Our Muslim and Hindu sisters and brothers also considered it very important. In the Qur’an, one serves God by “doing good to orphans, those in need, neighbors who are near, neighbors who are strangers, the companion by your side, the wayfarer you meet, and those who have nothing.” (4:36) Hindu scripture says “The guest is a representative of God.”

Hospitality is big business today—it generates billions of dollars and employs many. For the most part, who are the many that work in this industry?

Bars were certainly hospitable places for gay people to congregate. It provided a “safe space/place” to be ourselves for many, many years. But oftentimes, liquor licenses were denied to establishments that catered to a homosexual clientele, and such establishments were often run by the mob, who would “pay off” (bribe) the police. “Raids” were not uncommon; sometimes advance notice was even given. Such was the situation 51 years ago at the Stonewall Inn. The clientele consisted of drags, queens, and homeless young people. Yes, there was a caste system within the “closeted” world, and these folks were considered a minority. It all began to change on June 28th when they said “Enough!” and fought off the police and “rioted” for the next six days. The following year on Sunday, June 28, 1970, the first Pride demonstration was held; not sure it was even called a parade until several years later. And soon boundaries were being shaken and broken all across the world. Were these folks prophets?

In our first reading today, proclaimed so well by Suzanne, we hear a snippet of a story about a prophet and a woman who offers hospitality. What we didn’t hear was that Elisha sought to repay her generous act, but this unnamed woman says she has all she needs, a home among family. Elisha says your reward then will be a son born next year.

As I indicated when I first sent out this Gospel reading, I included a few lines ahead of the lectionary selection. Without this, I thought the words “Those who love mother, father, son or daughter more than me are not worthy of me” seem very harsh and what was Jesus thinking, if he said such. As I read all of chapter 10, I realized he was trying to prepare them for their work after he was gone. He was being forthright in telling them it would be difficult, even dangerous (taking up the cross), but don’t worry or be overwhelmed. The Spirit of Abba God will give you all you need, so go “expel unclean spirits, heal sickness and dis-ease of all kinds.” The very last paragraph may be the most important. It reminds me of his “parable of great surprise” in chapter 25. You know it so well: “I was hungry and you fed me, thirsty and you gave me drink, a stranger and you welcomed me.”  This gospel speaks of hospitality and openness; even offering only a cup of cold water will be rewarded.

In her book, The Time is Now, A Call to Uncommon Courage, Sister Joan Chittister says we all are called to be courageous prophets. Just as the prophets of old were never silent, we too must find our voice. In another of her writings, she says Hospitality is the way we come out of ourselves. It is the first step toward dismantling the barriers of the world. Hospitality is the way we turn a prejudiced world around, one heart at a time.”

Marsha P Johnson, a drag queen who was at the Stonewall Inn on that now famous evening, said this in an interview in 1992, “How many years does it take for people to see that we’re all brothers and sisters, and human beings in the human race?”

“If you want peace, work for justice.” (Paul VI)


And so my friends, what did you hear?
Nurse with Covid Patient
Statement of Faith
We believe in the Holy One, a divine mystery
beyond all definition and rational understanding,
the heart of all that has ever existed,
that exists now, or that ever will exist.

We believe in Jesus, messenger of the Divine Word,
bringer of healing, heart of Divine compassion,
bright star in the firmament of the Holy One's
prophets, mystics, and saints.

We believe that We are called to follow Jesus
as a vehicle of divine love,
a source of wisdom and truth,
and an instrument of peace in the world.

We believe in the Spirit of the Holy One,
the life that is our innermost life,
the breath moving in our being,
the depth living in each of us.

We believe that the Divine kin-dom is here and now,
stretched out all around us for those
with eyes to see it, hearts to receive it,
and hands to make it happen.

LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST

Lindy:        As we prepare for the sacred meal, we bring our personal cares, concerns and blessings as well as the needs of our world. Dennis will give voice to those shared by the community this week …… Dennis will give a silent opportunity for us to acknowledge other concerns before ending with “We pray for these and all unspoken intentions. AMEN!

Jim:            Mindful of our Jewish ancestors’ blessing prayers at Shabbat meals, we pray ……
                  Blessed are You, Eternal God, Creator of the universe, who brings forth bread from the earth. It is our spiritual food!

Lindy:        Blessed are You, Eternal God of the universe, creator of the fruit of the vine. It is our spiritual drink!

Men:          O great Lover of the Universe, we thank you for creating us in your image and giving us a share in co-creation. May we be responsible stewards of all your good gifts.

Women:      O nurturing Mother of the Universe, we are grateful for your presence with us. Mindful of our limitations, you know our essential goodness and love us as we are. You inspire us to see the good in others and forgive their limitations with compassionate hearts. Acknowledging your incarnation is us and all creation, together we sing:


Holy, Holy, Holy  (Words and music by Karen Drucker)
We are holy, holy, holy,
We are holy, holy, holy,
We are whole.

Spirit Divine, Come to Me,
healing Love, healing Me.
Open my heart, allow me to see,
Beauty and love, lives in me.

You are holy, holy, holy…

Men:          Guiding Spirit, when opposing forces tug and pull at us, grace us with gifts of wisdom, knowledge, understanding and right judgment to make wise decisions and gift us with courage and fortitude to act always for the common good.

Women:      We thank you for our brother, Jesus, and for all sisters and brothers who have modeled for us a way to live and love in challenging times. Inspired by their example, may we be peacemakers and reconcilers, choosing life over death, becoming beacons of light and hope in dark times.

Please extend your hands (epiclesis)
All:             We are ever aware of your Spirit in us and among us. We invoke your Spirit anew upon these simple gifts of bread and wine, that they and us might truly be Christ present to the world.

                  On the night before he faced his own death, Jesus sat at supper with his companions and friends. He reminded them of all that he taught, and to fix that memory clearly, he bent down and washed their feet.

                                             Lindy lifts bread
                  When he returned to his place at table, he lifted the bread, spoke the blessing, broke the bread, and offered it to them saying:
                           Take and eat, this is my very self.

                                             after a pause, Jim lifts cup      
                  Then he took the cup of the covenant, spoke the grace, and offered it to them saying:        Take and drink.
Whenever you remember me like this, I am among you.

Lindy:        Together, let us proclaim the mystery of faith:

All:             Christ has died in all those who have passed away from COVID, from police
brutality, and all those who have suffered violent crimes arising from hatred.

Christ rises in all those working for the well-being of humanity—whether it be researching a vaccine, providing medical care and treatment, or dismantling institutional racism, sexism, ageism, homophobia and transphobia.

Christ comes again and is made present each day in our lives by our actions, if only by offering a cup of water to the least and the last among us.

Men:          Holy One, we join our hearts with all who are working for a just world.  We pray for wise leaders in all religious communities. We pray for courageous and compassionate leaders in our country and across the globe.

Women:      We pray for all of us gathered here and like Jesus, we open ourselves up to your Spirit, for it is through living as he lived that we awaken to your Spirit within,
moving us to glorify you, at this time and all ways. Amen.

Lindy:        Let us pray as Jesus taught:

Holy One, you are within, around and among us.
We celebrate your many names.
Your wisdom come; your will be done,
unfolding from the depths within us.
Each day you give us all that we need.
You remind us of our limits and we let go.
You support us in our power, and we act with courage.
For you are the dwelling place within us,
the empowerment around us,
and the celebration among us,
now and forever. Amen.  (Adapted by Miriam Therese Winter)

Jim:            My friends, gifts of God for God’s people. May we become what we eat and drink!
All:             What we have heard with our ears, we will live with our lives; as we share communion, we will become communion, both Love’s nourishment and Love’s challenge.

                  As we Eat and Drink, let us listen to the words of our meditation song

Peace Prayer of St. Francis
                  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AEoyqMG1bDA

Jim:            Let us offer a Prayer of Thanksgiving  (Didache, Instruction, 100CE)

Men:          For the thanksgiving, give thanks this way: First, for the cup: We thank you, Abba God, for the sacred vine of David your son, whose meaning you made clear to us through our brother Jesus, yours ever be the splendor.

Women:      And for the bread fragment: We thank you, Amma God, for the life and wisdom whose meaning you made clear to us through Jesus, Myriam and Mary of Magdala, yours ever be the splendor.

All:             As this fragment was scattered high on hills, but by gathering was united into one, so let your people from earth’s ends be united into your single reign, for yours are splendor and glory through Jesus, the Christ, down the ages.

Lindy:        Let us extend our hands in blessing each other with these words:

All:             May the Fire of Love ignite our hearts and radiate through us.
May the Spirit of truth and justice burn within us.
May we continue to be the face of the Holy One, and
May we be a blessing in our time.  AMEN!


Closing Song:       Believe Out Loud   (Words and Music by David Lohman © 2010)

It's time to proclaim aloud the faith that we hold dear.
It's time to reach out to the rejected.
It's time to stand up and say, "No more!"
It's time to declare a Word of Welcome,
bring everyone through the opened doors.
It's time to believe out loud,
It's time to be strong and proud,
It's time to believe, believe out loud!

1.       Our God remains unchanging,
yet in so many ways the Holy One's still speaking,
for this we offer praise.
Yet God's all-loving guidance too often goes unheard.
But there is yet more wisdom to break forth from God's Word!  Refrain

2.       If thoughts like love and justice are more than hollow words,
we'll listen for the Spirit and let our hearts be stirred.
We'll learn to think in new ways, the doors we'll open wide.
The table's set and ready, bring everyone inside!  Refrain

3.       The love of God is boundless, we're never turned away.
And out of this abundance, this gift we must repay.
We've got to stand with millions who've heard the Spirit's call,
and shout it from the mountains: “God’s love is meant for ALL!”  Refrain
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In my prior work for the National LGBTQ Task Force’s Institute for Welcoming Resources (IWR), we were part of the advisory board that formed what was to ultimately become Believe Out Loud. The inspiration came from polling done by the Public Religion Research Institute. (Don’t freak out. This is going to get a bit wonky for a few moments!) In short, the polling revealed that in matters concerning LGBTQ issues, a majority of people in the pews felt they were more progressive than their clergy, and therefore remained silent, waiting for the clergy to begin the conversation. Remarkable, the same polling showed that a majority of clergy felt that they, in fact, were more progressive than their congregants, and therefore remained similarly silent. So that means that a majority of people of faith – clergy and laity – are supportive of LGBTQ inclusion, yet so few were talking about it. Too many of us were keeping the light of God’s Inclusion very well-hidden (Matthew 5:15). Therein lies the need to believe out loud. The common misperception is that people of faith are, by and large, anti-LGBTQ, and LGBTQ people are anti-faith. This polling, and so much like it, shatters that false dichotomy.

I found this all tremendously exciting, and Believe Out Loud has gone on to do great things to lift up the voices of pro-LGBTQ people of faith. When Believe Out Loud and its website had its big launch in early 2010, in addition to working for IWR, I was also serving as Minister of Music at Living Table United Church of Christ. We were among a handful of ecumenical congregations across the country who took part in that launch. And I thought that the occasion screamed for a theme song!

Wednesday, June 24, 2020

Moment of Oneness – June 24 & 25, 2020

Opening Prayer

Almighty God, source of our life, we acknowledge you as Creator of all people of every race, language, and way of life. Help us to see each other as you see us: your daughters and sons loved into being and sustained by your loving care. Keep watch over our hearts so that the evil of racism will find no home with us. Direct our spirits to work for justice and peace so that all barriers to your grace which oppress our brothers and sisters will be removed. We pray this in your Holy Name. Amen.
Reading

First, understand the difference between being uncomfortable and being threatened. There is no way to tell the truth about race in this country without white people becoming uncomfortable. Because the plain truth is that if it were up to people of color, racism would have been resolved, over and done, a long time ago. The only reason for racism's persistence is that white people continue to benefit from it.
Repeat that last sentence. Make it your mantra. Because until the country accepts that truth, we will never move beyond superficial words and ineffective half-measures.
            Excerpt from Bryan N. Massingale, The Assumptions of White Privilege….

Silent Reflection

Petitions

To the Creator of all races and peoples, who loves each of us for our uniqueness, we offer our prayers of petition:

For an end to discrimination in all its forms, we pray ... Bind us together, God of Love.

That each person may be respected and valued as a child of God, we pray ... Bind us together, God of Love.

That the Church may be a witness and a universal sign of unity among all peoples, we pray ... Bind us together, God of Love.

That each of us may acknowledge our part in mistakes and sins of the past pertaining to discrimination and racism, we pray ... Bind us together, God of Love.

For a spirit of forgiveness and reconciliation among peoples who share a history of mutual mistrust, hatred or aggression, we pray ... Bind us together, God of Love.

That the victims of racial prejudice may forgive those who persecute them, and that their persecutors may have a change of heart, we pray ... Bind us together, God of Love.

That the Church will continue to strive to make every element of human life correspond to the true dignity of the human person, we pray ... Bind us together, God of Love.

For those who have struggled in the past and continue to do so today for civil rights, economic justice and the elimination of discrimination based on race, nationality or religion, we pray ... Bind us together, God of Love.

For the conversion of the hearts and minds of those who allow another's race to influence their relationships and limit their openness, we pray ... Bind us together, God of Love.
That we may work to influence the attitudes of others by expressly rejecting racial or ethnic stereotypes, slurs and jokes and be affirming of the cultural contributions of every racial, ethnic and religious group in our world, we pray ... Bind us together, God of Love.
That we may make a personal commitment to abolish social structures which inhibit economic, educational and social advancement of the poor, we pray ... Bind us together, God of Love.
That we may work for decent working conditions, adequate income, housing, education and health care for all people, we pray ... Bind us together, God of Love.
                                                                        Written by Augustinians of the Midwest

Closing Song: Room At The Table, Carrie Newcomer

Saturday, June 20, 2020

Upper Room Inclusive Catholic Community - Father's Day Liturgy 2020 - Presiders: Debra Trees, ARCWP, and Bill Roylance

Josie with her dad, Milton McPherson
Welcome and Theme: Father’s Day – a time to remember the Men in our lives who have had a profound impact on us to help shape the person we are today. We celebrate the men throughout the world who hold in compassion and love the children entrusted to their care.

Opening Prayer - Source of Life, we thank you for the fathers in our life. Whether our actual father or another man who touched our lives with love, encouragement, example and support, we are grateful for their presence. Today as we celebrate with the men in our community and world, we hope that all of us emulate the wonderful characteristics of Father. We wish for them every joy in their discipleship of emulating Jesus’s call to love. Amen.

Opening Song: God Beyond All Names https://youtu.be/5Htrmq0g_Nk

First Reading from The Best Part of Life, Anya Seton

I was a restless little girl, greedy for sensations, hankering too much for the next moment, without savoring the now. My father, Ernest Thompson Seton, was a naturalist and a great admirer of our Indians. In both capacities he had learned the art of wonder - simple looking, without strain or self-consciousness, until he really saw.

Long ago, at our Connecticut home, he would take me on walks, which often bored me, for suddenly he would stop stock-still on the road, gazing up at a bank.

“What are you staring at, daddy?” I would clamor. “Do let's go on!”

“Look, child!” he would answer, smiling. “What do you see?” And i would see nothing but a dull mass of Stones and dead leaves, while I tugged at him impatiently.  “Look again!” he would command, unmoving. And at last I learned to see what he did, the glimmering petals of spring beauties, or hepatica, the turquoise glint of a fallen robin’s egg, a baby rabbit peering out from under a toadstool, the chipped rosy quartz of an Indian arrowhead dropped three hundred years before.

Gradually I learned one of the most comforting truths in life - that the present moment is always filled with curious treasures, if we but quiet ourselves and look deep.

Two often through the years of marriage, motherhood and writing of my books, I have forgotten this lesson and plunged into hectic rush, until the mind and nerves get frazzled and the body therefore sickens. Then I'm stopped by the echo of my father's voice – “Wait a minute! What's the hurry? Stand still and look until you really see!”

Perhaps this command is easiest to follow with regard to nature and art, but it does not depend on these to yield its magic balm. There is no person, no situation which cannot cause wonder, if we will stop and gaze as though for the first time.

Goethe said, “the highest to which man can attain is wonder.” And the faculty does seem to lead to humility and gratitude and happiness.

These are the sacred words from Anya Seton, and the community affirms them by saying: AMEN.

Alleluia.
Dennis "Padge" McDonald with Jeanne and Family
Gospel Matthew 10: 26 to 30.  

Do not, therefore, be afraid of them. There is nothing concealed which will not be revealed, nor anything hidden which will not become known. What I tell you in the dark, say again in the light; and what is whispered in your ear, proclaim on the housetops. Do not be afraid of those who kill the body, but are unable to kill the soul; rather be afraid of the one who is able to destroy both soul and body in Gehenna. Are not two sparrows sold for one copper coin? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground without your Father’s knowledge. While as for you, even the hairs of your head are numbered.

These are the sacred words from Matthew, and the Community affirms these words by saying, AMEN.
Grandpa Bernie with Max
Homily Starter: Deb

I think fathers get a bad rap sometimes. They are not considered as loving as mothers, not thought of as giving a big hug, and might in contrast be the disciplinarian. They are not the ones at home in our culture, at least in the past. Not the cooks, cleaners and ones helping with homework. Father’s Day was not even celebrated in the United States for many years as Mother’s Day had traditionally been.

In our Catholic tradition though, we are steeped in the concept of Abba God as Jesus shared with us. Fathers Day was celebrated in different ways and in different cultures, possibly for over 1500 years. Jesus shows us a relationship with our creator who cares so deeply about us, that even the hairs on our head are counted. How amazing that we are that unique and special!

Today, we celebrate those father-figures in our lives – Dads, Husbands, Brothers, Sons, Uncles, Friends and Neighbors. The ones who gave the hug, shared time and talent to teach us things. The ones who listened when we went to them and asked for help. The ones who stood by us.

Jesus presented a relationship to his neighbors, (and subsequently to us) that confirms that he thought of God as Goodness and Love, and not a punitive bringer of judgement, hell-fire and brimstone. This concept of a loving Abba-God based in Scripture is a wonderful way for us to be in relationship with the men in our lives, today.
Deb with her Grandfather Frank Geiger
Homily Starter, Bill:

Several months back I had one of the those: “Ah Ha” moments. A time when you take the time to re-examine what you thought was true.                   
I was out running errands with my son in his car. Along the way he stopped for gas. Looking out the window I was amazed to see my son jiggling with the handle of the gas pump so the meter read a five or a zero. It is was the same thing I have been doing for years.  I thought this was strange because I never suggested to my son to do this when he filled his gas tank.

The next day I shared this story with my mother. After hearing the story my mother said, “Oh that is something your father used to do that would drive me crazy.” It was at that moment I came to realize I was more like my father than I had ever imagined.
                                                                                                                        I find this funny because growing up in the 60’s I wanted my dad to be just like those dads I watched on TV. I wanted my dad to be just like Ward Clever - A dad that would sit you down and have long heart-to-heart talks. A dad that would give you a pat on the back when you were finished talking.                

My father was nothing like that.  We never sat down to have heart to heart talks. My father was also always very reluctant to share any form of affection.  I was 47 years when I heard my father say, “I love you”.

What I came to realize in that “Ah Ha” moment was that the values that I learned from my father came from the example he set. The values of honesty, hard work and self-sacrifice.                                

It wasn’t till after my father passed away in 2015 that l found out what my father did during the war. When I would ask my father “What did you do during the war?”, his only reply was “I was stationed on a small island in the Pacific.” In my mind I thought my father's war experience must of been just like the TV show McCale’s Navy.

This was not true. What I discovered was my father was stationed in probably one of the most dangerous places in the South Pacific: IL Island, Okinawa, Japan. I found out that my father’s job as a signalman was to help direct Navy planes when they landed or took off. My father risked his life everyday while he was there.

Many of the people my father served with never made it home. My father was like many of the people of his generation. He never talked about it. He never thought he was a hero. He never expected that he should be praised for what he did.

I believe my father and many of the people of his generation were willing to serve for one very simple reason. They believed it was the right thing to do.

In September my third grandchild will be born. I often wonder what my grand-children’s’ lives will be like.  Will they keep jigging the handle on the gas pump till it reads either a five or a zero? Lord I hope not!

Let us hope and pray when our grandchildren look back on the year 2020, they will able to discover the positive things we did to make the world we lived in a better place. Let us also hope and pray that they will be a light to future generations.

Shared Homily. Deb: Please feel free to share your insights.
Bill with his dad, William Roylance
Statement of Faith

We believe in the Holy One, a divine mystery
beyond all definition and rational understanding,
the heart of all that has ever existed,
that exists now, or that ever will exist.

We believe in Jesus, messenger of the Divine Word,
bringer of healing, heart of Divine compassion,
bright star in the firmament of the Holy One's
prophets, mystics, and saints.

We believe that We are called to follow Jesus
as a vehicle of divine love,
a source of wisdom and truth,
and an instrument of peace in the world.

We believe in the Spirit of the Holy One,
the life that is our innermost life,
the breath moving in our being,
the depth living in each of us.

We believe that the Divine kin-dom is here and now,
stretched out all around us for those
with eyes to see it, hearts to receive it,
and hands to make it happen. 

As we prepare for the eucharistic meal, we recognize that just as Jesus is anointed, so is each of us. We pray today, this special litany of blessings and intentions in honor of Father’s Day.

Holy One.
Today we ask You to bless our earthly fathers
for the many times they reflected the love, strength, generosity, wisdom and mercy that You exemplify in Your relationship with us.
All: Cradle us in your heart.

We honor our fathers for putting our needs above their own convenience and comfort;
for teaching us to show courage and determination in the face of adversity;
for challenging us to move beyond self-limiting boundaries;
for modeling the qualities that would turn us into responsible, principled, caring adults.
All: Cradle us in your heart.

Not all our fathers lived up to these ideals.
Give them the grace to acknowledge and learn from their mistakes.
Give us the grace to extend to them the same forgiveness that you offer us all.
Help us to resist the urge to stay stuck in past bitterness,
instead, moving forward with humility and peace.
All: Cradle us in your heart.

We ask your blessing on those men who served
as father figures in our lives when our biological fathers weren't able to do so.
May the love and selflessness they showed us
be returned to them in all their relationships, and help them to know that their influence has changed us for the better.
All: Cradle us in your heart.

Give new and future fathers the guidance they need to raise happy and holy children, grounded in a love for God and other people -and remind these fathers that treating all with dignity, compassion and respect is one of the greatest gifts they can give their family.
All: Cradle us in your heart.

We pray that our fathers who have passed into the next life have been welcomed into Your loving embrace,
and that our family will one day be reunited in your heavenly kingdom.
All: Cradle us in your heart.

Please voice your own silent intentions.

Deb: Holy One, You Cradle us with selfless love, strength, generosity, wisdom and mercy, hear our prayers this day. Amen.

(Source: Modified from Tony Rossi, The Jesuit Online Resource for Father’s Day)
Kim with her brother, Walter
LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST

God Beyond All Names, who gives life and breath to everyone and everything in our world, let us find life, breath and meaning for ourselves and our world.
We celebrate and give thanks, together, for the men in our communities. That women and men are different invites us into partnership, invites us to share the burdens and the joys of life.

In the gentle care of the Holy one we find our home. And in the living Spirit we are united this day in offering praise as we sing: 

Blessed be our God

Blessed be our God!   
Joy of our hearts, source of all life and love!   
God of Heaven and Earth!  
God of Heaven and Earth!  
Dwelling within, calling us all by name!   
Alleluia, sing! Alleluia, sing!  
  
Gift of love and peace!  
Gift of love and peace! 
Jesus Christ, Jesus our hope and light!  
A flame of faith in our hearts! 
A flame of faith in our hearts! 
Proclaiming the day, shining throughout the night!  
Alleluia, sing!  
Alleluia, sing! 
(Alleluia Sing by David Haas)  

Great Mystery with a father’s heart, you gather us as your children. You comfort and hold us in your warm embrace. Eternal and loving Source of Life, we thank you this day, for being part of your family.

Great Mystery, with a father’s heart, love surrounds and supports us, in good and difficult times, in the midst of joy and pain, always and everywhere. We are never left alone nor abandoned.

When we hurt we are held in love’s embrace. When we are afraid we are surrounded with compassionate care. When we are hungry we are nourished with the bread of life.

Deb: Please extend your hands as we pray the prayers of consecration

We are grateful for the God Beyond All Names at our Eucharistic Table and for this bread and wine which reminds us of our call to be the body of Christ in the world, standing in solidarity with the oppressed and the broken.  

All: On the night before he faced his own death, Jesus sat at the Seder supper with his companions and friends.  He reminded them of all that he taught them, and to fix that memory clearly with them, he bent down and washed their feet.  
  
All lift their plate as the community prays the following: 

When he returned to his place at the table, he lifted the bread, spoke the blessing, broke the bread and offered it to them saying:  
Take and eat, this is my very self. 
 (consume bread and pause)  
  
All lift their cup as community prays the following: 

Then he took the cup of the covenant, spoke the grace, and offered it to them saying: 
Take and drink. 
Whenever you remember me like this, 
I am among you. 
(drink and pause)  

ALL: We share this bread and cup to proclaim and live the gospel of justice and peace. 

For those who have been blessed with an awareness of parental care, who have looked to be guided and nurtured, we give thanks, and we pray for unity of the human family.  May we cradle others, that they too may enjoy a life of nurturance and acceptance.

For those who hunger and thirst, who are lost and alone, who yearn to be given new direction, new hope and new life, we pray that they experience through us care, compassion and love. Let us be seen and known as faithful followers of Jesus the Christ through this community of faith. Help us to uphold the teachings of Jesus, our brother, as we seek to bring justice and peace to the world.

For the many strengths of men, their gifts of selfless love, strength, generosity, wisdom and mercy and so much more, we are grateful.

So, we trust that the Spirit of the Holy One will continue to beckon us to live out the Gospel values of compassion and equality, bringing peace and justice to the world in which we live. AMEN.

Deb: Let us pray the Prayer of Jesus:

O Holy One who is within, around and among us.
We celebrate your many names.
Your wisdom come. Your will be done.
Unfolding from the depths within us.
Each day your give us all we need,
You remind us of our limits, and we let go.
You support us in our power, and we act with courage,
For yours is the dwelling place within us,
The empowerment around us.
And the celebration among us. Now and forever. Amen.
(From Miriam Therese Winter)

Communion Meditation: The Wind Beneath My Wings, Bette Midler and Kenny Rogers.
Upper Room Tribute to Fathers 2020
https://youtu.be/e4y0sq2r3Pc

Bill: Let us pray together our Closing Prayer and Blessing.

We give our thanks, Creator God, for the fathers in our lives. ...

For those who are fathers, we ask for wisdom and humility in the face of the task of parenting. Give them the strength to do well by their children and by You.

Give us all as Community, the vision to support the men in our lives as they walk in your Divine Footsteps.
In Your Holy name, O God, we pray.  Amen,

(The Eucharistic Prayer modified from the Upper
Room Mother’s Day liturgy, 2020.)