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Thursday, October 8, 2026

Upper Room Sunday Liturgy, October 11, 2026 - Donna Panaro, Phillis Sheppard and Juanita Cordero


Welcome to the Upper Room on this feast day of Pope John the 23
rd. His feast day is also the anniversary of the day that he opened the Second Vatican Council in 1962. Pope John the 23rd recognized the importance of helping an imperfect church become a better reflection of the kindom on earth. We will focus today on God’s invitation to help us do the same.


Opening Song: All Are Welcome by Marty Haugen

https://youtu.be/qRcdtSrHzp0?si=ypo32mLQVYWjMOAY


 

LITURGY OF THE WORD

First Reading: A reading from the Book of Isaiah (25:6-10)


On this mountain the LORD of hosts
will provide for all peoples
a feast of rich food and choice wines,
juicy, rich food and pure, choice wines.
On this mountain he will destroy
the veil that veils all peoples,
the web that is woven over all nations;
he will destroy death forever.
The Lord GOD will wipe away
the tears from every face;
the reproach of his people he will remove
from the whole earth; for the LORD has spoken.
On that day it will be said:
"Behold our God, to whom we looked to save us!
This is the LORD for whom we looked;
let us rejoice and be glad that he has saved us!"
For the hand of the LORD will rest on this mountain.


These are the inspired words of the prophet Isaiah and the community affirms the by saying: Amen



Second Reading: The Wedding Banquets by Fr. Richard Rohr


In the New Testament, and particularly for Jesus, the most common image for what God is offering us is a banquet. It’s not a trophy, not a prize, not a reward reserved for later, but a participative and joyous party now. A banquet has everything to do with invitation and acceptance; it is never a command performance. 

 

Matthew’s Gospel contains the parable of the wedding banquet. A king sends out his servants to let the guests know that the banquet has been prepared. “But they were not interested. These are not bad things, but just “busyness with many things” that keep them from “the one important thing” (Luke 10:41–42), which is the banquet of conscious divine union. At the end of the parable, the king instructs the servants, “Go out and invite everyone you can find to the wedding feast.” The servants returned with “the good and the bad alike.” That phrase has been shocking to most Christians, because we have been taught to believe that Jesus’ message is primarily a moral matter in which “bad” people would clearly not belong. Once we know it is primarily a mystical matter, a realization of union, it reframes the entire journey. Almost by accident, we find ourselves becoming “moral,” but morality did not earn us a ticket to the banquet. 


These are the inspired words of Richard Rohr and the community affirms them by saying: Amen


Gospel Acclamation: Celtic Alleluia

https://youtu.be/o1rc7ojQtJU?si=6CxA2UOkT-qrnBO2


Gospel: A reading from the Gospel writer known as Matthew (22:1-14)


Once more Jesus spoke to them in parables, saying: “The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who gave a wedding banquet for his son.  He sent his slaves to call those who had been invited to the wedding banquet, but they would not come. Again he sent other slaves, saying, ‘Tell those who have been invited: Look, I have prepared my dinner, my oxen and my fat calves have been slaughtered, and everything is ready; come to the wedding banquet.’  But they made light of it and went away, one to his farm, another to his business, while the rest seized his slaves, mistreated them, and killed them.  The king was enraged. He sent his troops, destroyed those murderers, and burned their city.  Then he said to his slaves, ‘The wedding is ready, but those invited were not worthy.  Go therefore into the main streets, and invite everyone you find to the wedding banquet.’  Those slaves went out into the streets and gathered all whom they found, both good and bad, so the wedding hall was filled with guests.


 “But when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing a wedding robe, and he said to him, ‘Friend, how did you get in here without a wedding robe?’ And he was speechless.  Then the king said to the attendants, ‘Bind him hand and foot, and throw him into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’  For many are called, but few are chosen.”


These are the inspired words of the gospel writer known as Matthew and the community affirms them by saying: Amen

Homily Starter


Throughout history there has been an ongoing evolution of how people understand God. Our first reading was written at a time when people were experiencing war and destruction in Judah. This part of Isaiah uses images of a King’s banquet to describe the prophet’s understanding of how God will prevail over war, death and destruction. Fast forward to the time of Jesus when a new King or Messiah is anticipated. Jesus’s ministry focused on teaching his friends about a different kind of king and kingdom. Instead of using military power Jesus models and teaches about the power of servant leadership, forgiveness, love, and healing. Jesus often teaches with parables. 


The parable we hear today in the gospel of Matthew is a challenging one. By unpacking the symbols found in the story, the meaning can become clearer to us. Fred Craddock, New Testament scripture scholar says: “The King’s invitation symbolizes God’s open call to all people. The guests who refuse the invitation reflect humanity’s indifference to divine grace. The lack of proper attire signifies the importance of being willing and open hearted to the transformation experienced in God’s Kingdom. And the radical inclusivity of inviting everyone shows that God’s invitation extends beyond any human boundaries. There is not a prerequisite to the invitation.”


We are invited to the Kindom of heaven today and at each moment of our lives. Two things are required regarding this invitation. First one must accept the invitation and then must put on the wedding garment. This wedding garment is a metaphor for being transformed by love or for “putting on Christ.” Saying yes to this invitation to be transformed by love means brave participation in our own evolution to be our highest self. We were created to love as our Creator loves. Saying yes to this invitation frees us to live our best lives as we let go of anything that gets in the way of our own evolution. We can participate in opportunities to let go of fear, hate, and greed so that we can love without measure. We can open our hearts to grace when we accept the invitation to the banquet of life. Saying yes to the invitation is an opportunity to open our heart to the mystical power of love which removes the veil of separateness. When the veil is removed, we realize union with the Great Love that unites all. We become aware of our connectedness to the Great Belonging reframing the entire journey of life.


Shared Reflections


Statement of Faith


We believe in the Holy One, a divine mystery
beyond all definition and rational understanding,
the heart of all that has ever existed,
that exists now, or that ever will exist.

We believe in Jesus, messenger of the Divine Word,
bringer of healing, heart of Divine compassion,
bright star in the firmament of the Holy One's
prophets, mystics, and saints.

 We believe that We are called to follow Jesus
as a vehicle of divine love,
a source of wisdom and truth,
and an instrument of peace in the world.

We believe in the Spirit of the Holy One,
the life that is our innermost life,
the breath moving in our being,
the depth living in each of us.

We believe that the Divine kin-dom is here and now,
stretched out all around us for those
with eyes to see it, hearts to receive it,
and hands to make it happen.


LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST


Prayers of the Community


As we prepare for this sacred meal, we are aware of our call to serve, and just as Jesus is anointed, so is each of us. We bring to this table our blessings, cares and concerns.


We bring these and all deeply held blessings, cares, and concerns to the table of friendship and peace. 


Eucharistic Prayer


Presider: With open hearts and hands let us pray our Eucharistic prayer in one voice:


O Great Love, thank you for living and loving in us and through us as we set our hearts on belonging to you. May all that we do flow from our deep connection with you and all creation.


You know our limitations and our essential goodness and you love us as we are. You beckon us to your compassionate heart and inspire us to see the good in others and forgive their limitations. Acknowledging your presence in each other and in all of creation, we sing:


Holy, Holy: Here in This Place by Christopher Grundy

https://youtu.be/sgkWXOSGmOQ 


Guiding Spirit, when opposing forces in us tug and pull and we are caught in the tension of choices, inspire us to make wise decisions toward what is good. 


We thank you for our brother, Jesus, and for all our sisters and brothers who have modeled for us a way to live and love in challenging times. Inspired by them, we choose life over death, we choose to be light in dark times. 


Please extend your hands in blessing.


We are ever aware of your Spirit in us and among us at this Eucharistic table and we are grateful for this bread and wine which reminds us of our call to be the body of Christ in the world. 


On the night before he faced his own death, Jesus sat at supper with his companions and friends.  He reminded them of all that he taught them, and to fix that memory clearly with them, he bent down and washed their feet. 

 

All lift the plate and pray:


When he returned to his place at the table, he lifted the bread, spoke the blessing, broke the bread and offered it to them saying: 

Take and eat, this is my very self.

 (pause)   

 

All lift the cup and pray:


Then he took the cup of the covenant, spoke the grace, and offered it to them saying:

Take and drink.

Whenever you remember me like this,

I am among you.

(pause) 


We share this bread and cup to proclaim and live the gospel of justice and peace. We choose to live justly, love tenderly, and walk with integrity. 


Please receive communion saying: I am / We are the Face of the Holy One.

Communion Song: At This Table by Selah

https://youtu.be/gs4q_9MrHa0?si=A16IggVAXY8nr-44


Prayer after Communion:


Holy One, your transforming energy is within us and we join our hearts with all who are working for a just world.  We pray for wise leaders in our religious communities. We pray for courageous and compassionate leaders in our world communities.  


We pray for all of us gathered here and like Jesus, we open ourselves up to your Spirit, for it is through living as he lived that we awaken to your Spirit within, 

moving us to glorify you, at this time and all ways.

Amen. 


Prayer of Jesus


Presider: Let us pray as Jesus taught us: 


Holy One, you are within, around and among us.  
We celebrate your many names. 
Your wisdom come; your will be done, 
unfolding from the depths within us. 
Each day you give us all that we need. 
You remind us of our limits and we let go. 
You support us in our power, and we act with courage. 
For you are the dwelling place within us, 
the empowerment around us, 
and the celebration among us,  
now and forever, Amen.  

Adapted by Miriam Therese Winter 


BLESSING


Presider: Please extend your hands and pray our blessing:


ALL:  May the Fire of Love ignite our hearts and radiate through us.

May the Spirit of truth and justice burn within us.

May we say yes to the invitation to become our highest selves, and 

May we be a blessing in our time.

AMEN.

 

Closing Song: I Am Willing by Holly Near

https://youtu.be/_XXYhhh-5sg?si=0sHofoGVdr2qLT9f





Wednesday, October 7, 2026

Upper Room Saturday Liturgy, October 10, 2026 - Presider: Kathie Ryan

Zoom:   https://us02web.zoom.us/j/82512159155
phone-in for (audio only).Phone Number: (646) 558-865


 Liturgy of Interdependence


Welcome: Tonight we look at our need to be interdependent with each other and all creation in joy and suffering.  We need each other. When we stand together justice, kindness and goodness surrounds us. 


Let us pray this opening song as our opening prayer.  


Invocation by Christopher Grundy

https://youtu.be/A95UbOPVQKc



LITURGY OF THE WORD


1st Reading: A Reading from an excerpt  ON JOY by Matthew Fox

It has been said that Joy is our natural state as humans. Joy is bigger than suffering and greater than loss. At times in life, we can taste and experience this truth; at other times, when Joy itself feels seemingly distant and far away, it needs to be a belief we can cling to. We call these times a “dark night” wherein Joy feels like a memory rather than a present reality. 

Joy is called a “fruit of the Spirit.” This means that Spirit brings Joy just as a pear tree bears pears. Spirit is bigger than all of us and bigger than our worries and woes, struggles and sufferings. Joy surrounds all the darkness of life and gives it meaning. Joy is a kind of wreath that embraces and hugs the world and our worlds even amidst hardship and despair. 

Thomas Aquinas startles us when he announces that “Joy is the human’s noblest act.” One would think that justice-making or compassion are our noblest acts, but I hear Aquinas saying that working for justice--whether that be eco justice, economic justice, gender justice or gender-preference justice, racial justice, social justice, or any stripe of justice is not an end in itself like joy is. Rather, justice opens the door to joy. When people are treated with justice and recognition of their dignity and fullness as human beings, joy can flow more freely and more copiously. And when justice dethrones the overly powerful from their places of power (as in Mary’s Magnificat in Luke 1.51-55), balance and fairness ensue. These in turn open the doors to people finding the joy that life brings and becoming free to develop one’s gifts and contribute to community. 

These are the words of Matthew Fox, and the community affirms them with AMEN!


Psalm 30   Joy in the morning


Sing to the Holy One, you who love God! Praise God’s holy Name.

God’s anger is fleeting, but God’s favor endures forever. 

There may be tears during the night, but joy comes in the morning.

Amen.


Gospel Acclamation: Celtic Alleluia by Christopher Walker

https://youtu.be/o1rc7ojQtJU




Gospel: A reading from the Gospel of John 10:10

I came that you might have life and have it to the full. 


We affirm these words with AMEN.


Shared Homily 


I heard a sermon on Rosh Hashanah about Joy and then shortly after the essay On Joy from Matthew Fox showed up in my emails.  I generally think God is trying to tell me something when life gives me simultaneous meditations.  I was struggling at the time with all the problems of the world, our government, immigration, politics, etc. And on-going family problems, particularly with my mother and her husband. 


It’s been a month since Rosh Hashanah and life has not gotten any more joyful. So, I went back and relistened to the sermon and reread the essay.  

The sermon was based on Psalm 30, particularly the verse “there may be tears in the night, but joy comes in the morning. The Rabbi made it clear that tears are not followed by joy as the psalm implies.  Rather she said tears and joy go hand and hand.  We will have joy amid the tears. 

Matthew Fox reinforced what the Rabbi said with: “Joy surrounds all the darkness of life.  The Spirit of joy is bigger than all our worries and struggles.”  


What brings the joy in the midst of tears, struggles, and worries? Matthew Fox says work, work for justice, and he lists different kinds of justice, economic, racial, gender justice etc. We in the Upper Room are working hard for justice, with the poor, protesting, writing letters to our legislatures, taking care of family and friends.  There are times when we feel we are up against a brick wall and that is when we must “cling to joy”. In the tough moments the best we can do is refuse to let bitterness, or sadness take over. We can take charge of our feelings.  


When I am working with people who live on the streets, talking with them, getting to know them they bring me joy even though I feel helpless to change their lives.  Reaching out to  and interacting with others  brings joy. Taking care of family and friends brings joy in the moment even when it’s in the midst of suffering.  


One more place to always find joy, Matthew Fox writes the whole of creation is ‘birthed” in joy. If you celebrated with us last weekend you heard the awe when we shared our thoughts on creation.  We see joy and experience it when we are in awe of  sunsets, flowers, pigeons, our pets, and in each of us.   Hold tight when the struggles are overwhelming and look to creation and each other to find the joy. Our being at one with each other is joy.


Statement of Faith 

 

We believe in the Holy One, a divine mystery 
beyond all definition and rational understanding, 
the heart of all that has ever existed, 
that exists now, or that ever will exist. 
 
We believe in Jesus, messenger of the Divine Word, 
bringer of healing, heart of Divine compassion, 
bright star in the firmament of the Holy One’s
prophets, mystics, and saints. 
 
We believe that We are called to follow Jesus 
as a vehicle of divine love, 
a source of wisdom and truth, 
and an instrument of peace in the world. 
 
We believe in the Spirit of the Holy One, 
the life that is our innermost life, 
the breath moving in our being, 
the depth living in each of us.


We believe that the Divine kin-dom is here and now, 
stretched out all around us for those 
with eyes to see it, hearts to receive it, 
and hands to make it happen. 


LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST


Prayers of the Community


As we prepare for this sacred meal, we are aware of our call to serve, and just as Jesus is anointed, so is each of us. We bring to this table our blessings, cares and concerns.


We bring these and all deeply held blessings, cares, and concerns to the table of friendship and peace. 


Eucharistic Prayer


Please join in praying the Eucharistic prayer with open hands and open hearts 


O Holy One, you have been called by many names by many people in the centuries of our planet’s life. Yet, no name truly defines you or describes you.  We celebrate you as the marvelous, loving energy of life who caused us and our world to be. We celebrate you as the Source of light and life and love, and we celebrate your presence and all-ways care.


O Holy One, we stand at a critical moment in Earth’s history – a time when humanity must choose its future. 


As the world becomes increasingly interdependent and fragile, the future holds both peril and great promise.


May we recognize that, in the midst of a magnificent diversity of cultures and life forms, we are one human family and one Earth community with a common destiny. 


United with our vast universe, with our Mother-Planet and her people everywhere, with one another and You, Holy One, our spirits dance and sing this song of praise: 


Holy, Holy, Holy by Peter Mayer shortened, video by Denise

https://youtu.be/A4kiEGVb3E8




We give grateful thanks for those who came before us, for all those who gave from their hearts, who gave from their lives, that there might be a better world, a safer world, a kinder world, we pray for peace in their name. 


And for the children, that they may live and grow in wisdom. We pray for peace in their name.


And for all peoples of this earth who have no voice in this,

For the animals that have no voice in this,

For the plants, the trees, the flowers that have no voice in this,

For all who share this earth with us, we pray for peace in their name.


We thank you for our brother, Jesus. He showed us so simply, so tenderly, how the world is in our hands. He had nothing in this world but your love, companions on the journey, and his very self. Together, that was more than enough, and that remains our clarity in the midst of confusion: the miracle of healing, new hope, nurturance, nourishment, liberation and life.


Please extend your hands in blessing. 


All: Your Spirit is here in us and in the gifts of this Eucharistic table. May we become gifts of wisdom, light and truth which remind us of our call to be the body of Christ to the world.



On the night before he faced his own death and for the sake of living fully, Jesus sat at the Seder supper with his companions and friends.  He reminded them of all that he taught them, and to fix that memory clearly within them, he bent down and washed their feet.

Lift bread

When he returned to his place at the table, he lifted the bread, spoke the blessing, broke the bread and offered it to them saying:

Take and eat; go and love one another.

 lift their cup 

He then raised high the cup of the covenant, spoke the grace, and offered it to them saying: 

Take and drink.

Whenever you remember me like this, I am among you.

What we have heard with our ears, we will live with our lives, 

As we share communion, we will become communion

Both Love’s nourishment and Love’s challenge. Our challenge is to be a bridge for each other.


Please consume the bread and drink the cup with the words: We stand together in joy and suffering.


Communion Song:  Bridge Over Troubled Water, Kings Return

https://youtu.be/uYT-eDMZI9w?si=wb7pZjxKNLJhu2hI


Prayer After Communion


Loving Source of All, we have looked for others to save us and to save our world. Yet, we are called, and consecrated and sent into the world to establish justice and show the blessed fulfillment that comes with simplicity and the giving of ourselves in love.  We will make new our commitment to the harmony of the original vision of creation. 


We will open wide all that has been closed about us, and our small circles. Like Jesus, in all openness, we will be filled with your own Spirit and renew the face of the earth.


For it is through learning to live as he lived,

And why he lived,

And for whom he lived,

That we awaken to your Spirit within,

Moving us to worship you truly,

O Holy One,

At this time and all time and in all ways.

And we say yes to You!


Prayer of Jesus


Let us pray together the prayer of Jesus:


All:  O Holy One, who is within, around and among us,

We celebrate your many names.

Your Wisdom come.

Your will be done, unfolding from the depths within us,

Each day you give us all we need;

You remind us of our limits, and we let go.

You support us in our power, and we act with courage.

    For you are the dwelling place within us, 

the empowerment around us,

and the celebration among us, now and forever.  Amen 

  (adapted by Miriam Therese Winter)   


BLESSING


Let us pray together our blessing:


May we experience the Holy One in each other and all of creation. May all the difficult experiences of life turn into joy, wonder, and gratefulness. May we continue to work for justice and peace. And may we know that we are loved and our never alone.  Amen.


Closing Song: Dance Then Wherever You May Be by John Ogrodowczyk

https://youtu.be/L6R6_Qz6_dU\